About just me1

Hi I am a 29 year old mother of 4 children and 2 step children. My husband was recently layed off. We were given a 2 bedroom trailer for 4 of us to live in. My 2 step children live with there mother and My older 2 are staying with my mother for school purposes. I have tried about everything that I can think of to get some help to pay bills and lot rent and have come up empty handed. My daughter is 7 months old and growing out of all her cloths as is my 4 almost 5 year old son (whome may be autistic). We were able to get a small dorm sized fridge when we moved in this trailer and it is working but the going to the store every other day is killing me. I dont know what to do anymore. I have gotten help from both of our families and dont really want to ask them anymore. Its been 2 months now and our bills are racking up. My son will be 5 on the 31st and i am somehow hoping to pull off a small birthday for him. I forgot to add..... We also are borrowing a car and the owner needs it back asap. Hard to do when we have no job, no money and no way to find any of those things.